Go With the Flow

It’s important to distinguish between the Downward Spiral and Radiating Possibility.

In their national best-seller “The Art of Possibility,” authors Ben and Rosamund Zander describe two worlds that are completely different in nature: the Downward Spiral and Radiating Possibility. Because of our natural bias toward negativity, the Downward Spiral is the world that we ordinarily inhabit. Conversations (internal or external) that stem from this point of […]

When a difficult situation arises, you can change it, remove yourself or accept it.

Difficult or unwanted situations invariably arise almost daily as busy professionals seek to balance work, family, friends and other passions. So, the question naturally arises: How should we navigate our more challenging moments? While we don’t want to pretend to be psychologists or psychiatrists, we have observed some approaches that are useful for dealing with […]

With presence of mind, you can notice more, let go 
and use everything at any moment and in any context.

We imagine that many of you, like us, are fans of improvisational comedy. We can’t help but be amazed when Wayne Brady, one of the stars of “Whose Line Is It Anyway?” fabricates complete song lyrics in real time using a musical genre, melody and theme that’s given to him only moments before he goes […]

Every once in a while, we come across a reminder that there is another way — a middle path — that resonates with us.

If you’ve ever tried your luck at surfing, it’s easy to see how it can serve as a metaphor for our human experience. Life comes at us in waves, no matter who we are or what we are trying to accomplish. It does not ask if we’re ready, nor is it completely predictable at any […]

A wandering mind might lead to less contentment.

How many of you would like to be able to travel through time as a superpower? We can’t yet do it physically, but we are quite proficient at it mentally. We spend many of our daytime hours in a half-awake daydream state where our mind wanders away from the present moment. Instead of fully attending […]

When in ‘flow,’ or fully present, goals are clear. Concentration deepens when someone is in a state of ‘flow.’

Erin Kramp was one of those rare people who had it all together all the time. Whether playing the role of a successful businesswoman who served on boards of directors by her 20s, in her marriage or as a mother to her young daughter, Peyton, Erin exuded a joy of life, a sense of ease […]